Showing posts with label convenience. Show all posts
Showing posts with label convenience. Show all posts

Thursday, October 10, 2013

McJobs


Someone once said that everyone should work in food service for a year.  I don't know exactly why that someone made that pronouncement, but there's truth there.   Why?  What does working in food service do for a person?  Gives you insight into the human condition: greed, jealousy, fear, kindness, evil, sadness, joy, meanness.  You can see it all in one day if you work at least an hour.  Some hyperbole there - probably won't catch all of those states if you only work the hour prior to opening or after close.  Ok, still some hyperbole, but man, do you see a lot when you work in food service.

I attended a professional conference last week during which the presenter asked if any of us had ever had "McJobs."  I hadn't heard that term before.  I had, however, worked at McDonald's for two and a half years.  Add in two seasons at a food stand at the Iowa State Fair and about six months at Hardees, and I have done my time in food service.  Still, I had not heard the term "McJob."  A quick glance at Wikipedia tells me that "McJob (sometimes called joe job) is slang for a low-paying, low-prestige dead-end job that requires few skills and offers very little chance of intracompany advancement."

I am not going to say that I enjoyed working under the golden arches (or at any other of the above-mentioned places), but I am going to say that as a teenager in the 80s, I felt like I was paid okay; I made friends; and I wasn't looking for advancement.  I was looking for some money to go to the movies or buy ugly earrings and stone-washed jeans.  It wasn't fun.  Well, it was fun the one time we had a rat the size of a small terrier run through the mall store.  It was also fun the time I scared my friend Kathy when she thought she was alone breaking down the shake machine, and she almost wet herself.  That was fun.  I never considered myself degraded by working there. I had to be on time, cheerful, follow a script of service, but there are standards in every job.  Standards don't degrade people - they require a mode of behavior that hopefully one will learn from and rise above.

I learned how to serve food to all sorts of people, with a smile, and quickly.  I learned the ins and outs of keeping things clean, of staying busy (or looking busy).  I learned that there are people in the world who will buy and freeze McDonald's hamburgers and reheat them at home.  I learned that you don't mop the owner's shoes and tell him "Out of the way, Big Daddy," when he's in a foul mood.  I learned that you do, in fact, refill the lady's fries when she complains the packet isn't full even though you watched her eat nearly all of them and then come back up to the window.   I don't believe my self-esteem was brought down because of working in fast food.  At the time, I made friends of varying ages and varying interests; almost thirty years later, some of them are professionals, some of them are clergy, and one is a truck driver. 

Of course, upon reading further in Wikipedia, this term is being applied to adult individuals who are working in such jobs now.  The term "McJob" is even in the Oxford English Dictionary (OED), and there has been controversy surrounding it. McDonald's employees were asked to sign a petition asking OED to remove the word. Many of those employees felt that the term was so accurate that they refused to sign. Is it demeaning to those who work in fast food or restaurant settings?  Does McDonald's treat entry-level employees badly?  Is there little chance for advancement in that company?  Well, I don't know how it is now; I have only my own now outdated experience to go on.  But, I can tell you my what happened in the drive-through yesterday at McDonald's.

I was welcomed by the sound of the microphone clicking on.  A pause.  Then, a terse, "Well?"  I placed a small, unspecific order, to wit:  a cheeseburger and a small diet Coke.  I was told the total and the microphone clicked off.  I pulled around (there wasn't anyone in front of me, so I had no wait time), and was greeted by a sign that read, "Thank you for having your payment ready."  It wasn't.  But, I fished out the two dollars and change and paid.  No words were exchanged between the cashier and me.  I smiled and pulled forward, having now resolved not to speak first but to see if the food delivery window person would speak.  She handed me my Coke and turned her back on me, resting her butt on the edge of the drive-through window.  She chatted with a co-worker as I waited. I should have had my payment ready within two seconds, but I was now to wait with a rear-view for company.  The wait was short, perhaps two minutes total.  She handed me the little bag with my cheeseburger, and I was off.  No words.  No thank yous.  No have a nice days.  No come agains. 

I do realize that working part-time as a teen is different than full-time as an adult. I do not want to go down Back-In-My-Day Lane; however, it seems to me that no matter what one's job, one can "mcjob" it if one wants to.  One can refuse common courtesy; one can demand speedy payment and provide unspeedy service; one can put one's rear-end on the windowsill of any job. In each job I have had - from newspaper route to McDonald's to classroom teaching - I have learned skills and been able to apply them in the next job.  Regardless of the actual setting, McJobs might be many fewer if employees take their rear-ends off the drive-through windows and get to work. And, that might even apply to our lawmakers right about now.





Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Leave the Kids Out of This

'Tis the season...to hang out with your kids. They are out of or home from school, and many of us get two or more weeks of uninterrupted kid-time. When my boys were younger, I loved the days of not getting up to rush to school. Sure, they still woke up abnormally early to watch cartoons and demand breakfast, but we didn't have to rush out the door. We could do nothing or everything and we had all day to do it. Lovely. While I fully realize that parents need breaks from kids, even during winter holidays, I have been pondering a recent phenomenon: parents, with no preference to either sex, who are habitually trying to get rid of their kids.

I'm not talking murder here. I'm also not talking about date nights, book clubs, anniversary trips, or other naturally and necessarily kid-free outings. I'm talking about those parents that rarely seem to take their children anywhere (or at least frequently strive to avoid it) unless it is a kid-centered outing. The kids stay at home with one or the other parent or even a sitter when any errand must be run, restaurant is to be visited, or car needs to be serviced. Kids stay at home, attended by Mr. Wii, Auntie Hershey, and the Red Baron.

What happened to the days of being "forced" to run errands (and rake yards and clean bathrooms)with parents? I seem to remember in & out of the car even in Iowa winters: my sisters and I, sweaty little bundles in the backseat, then frozen faces in the parking lots of the grocery store and Ben Franklin and Dot Discount Drug. Nowadays, even here in temperate Georgia, children are too often spared the inconvenience of running around town with mom or dad...or rather, parents are spared their kids' whining around town. So, everyone's happy if the tots stay at home.

But, what is the price of this convenience? Children are not learning manners of public behavior or, really any basic adult-life skills, such as maneuvering a grocery store or pumping gas. And, yes, I'm serious. There are 18 year-olds who can't even begin to find a bottle of syrup or box of tissue at Kroger. I had a student once whose dad took her car and pumped gas into it whenever the tank got low. Then girl went off to college not knowing this most basic thing. As a twenty year veteran educator, I have the utmost hope for the future. Kids these days are, by and large, smart and interesting and talented. Still, parents today do their children a terrible disservice when they don't take their kids of all ages out and about on mundane tasks.

I know from conversations with and Facebook posts from younger friends, former students, and older first time parents, that many parents don't want to be troubled by their kids when it comes to errands. Friends post about their sadness at not being able to go to Walmart because their spouse is working, hunting, or at a baby shower. What?! Bundle up the kids - all of them - and take them. Teach them to sit calmly in the shopping cart, asking for only one thing while at the store. (asking, not necessarily getting.) The consequence of asking for more than one thing? Getting nothing. Guaranteed. Take the kids out to eat in a sit-down restaurant. Life is not Chuck E. Cheese's. Teach them to sit politely and amuse themselves with the kids'menu, hand and word games or even -- wait for it -- conversation with those with whom they are dining. Kids like experiential learning, and it's not happening nearly enough.

When I see harried kids and weeping parents at Applebee's or Target, it occurs to me that these parents have not taught their kids how to behave in these mundane settings. The kids can be fine at home, a playground, or school...but, they don't know proper comportment for society. Everything is either relaxation, fun and games, or serious business. Nope, a lot of life is picking up milk and getting tires rotated. And, more often than not such outings do not require a Chik-Fil-A milkshake or a Sonic wacky pack.

So, this winter break, take the kids to Disney on Ice and the laser tag arena with a built in pizza place, but also take them to pick up dog kibble and a prescription refill at Walgreen's. The future cashiers and waiters of America will thank you, but most importantly, your kids will, too.